Unit 1 My Life
Letters from Recent Graduates
Welcome ____ a new season of High School Magazine.
To start off the new school year on the right foot, we asked some of ____ recent graduates to give us tips on how to succeed in the coming year and beyond.
Compare Apples to Apples
In high school, everyone told me how talented an artist I was, so I dreamed ____ becoming an illustrator.
In university, though, everyone seemed much more talented than me, and they all worked so hard that ____ felt small in comparison.
I thought about giving ____ my dream of becoming an artist.
Then one day, I happened to see a drawing ____ had won an award for from middle school on the kitchen wall.
I was embarrassed because it wasn’t very ____
People say you shouldn’t compare apples to oranges, and ____ right.
That’s ____ it doesn’t make sense to compare yourself to Internet personalities or even people in your real life.
Maybe they had an advantage, or even a disadvantage, ____ you didn’t.
If you are going to compare yourself to anyone, the only fair comparison ____ “yesterday-you.”
Only you know where you started and how much effort ____ put in.
I couldn’t see ____ progress in my ability when I only compared myself to others.
Everyone develops differently. I’m able to see now the drawing ____ the kitchen was full of mistakes that I no longer make.
It is empowering to see how I have improved rather than to envy the ____ of others.
Your competition isn’t the person next door ____ the influencer on social media: it’s you.
Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up
Do you share your opinion in ____ discussions, or do you just stay silent and keep it to yourself?
Like many of you, I often found myself ____ the second group.
A little black hole inside of me swallowed my voice when I ____ speaking up.
____ consequences of being ridiculed or being wrong were always on my mind.
Then, after a particularly heated conversation in class, I ____ myself, “What am I afraid of?”
I was scared that bad things ____ happen, but I never thought about good things.
____ I noticed others taking risks, I knew that I needed to do the same in order to participate.
Many people are scared to speak up, but a lot of them do it anyway because they think it’s worth ____
So I left my comfort ____ and started to speak up.
I grew intellectually and ____ by expressing myself more clearly.
I got closer to friends who liked how open ____ was with them.
Now ____ have more people with whom I can talk, share my ideas, and learn new things.
Remember, taking ____ risk of expressing yourself can be extremely rewarding in unexpected ways.
Use Energy on What You Can Control
As I worked through my ____ year into my third in college, I had more troubles balancing school and personal life.
I ____ get excited, anxious, worried, and bored all at once and then separately.
I would get exhausted when I had to write a report for my ____ mediate a disaster between friends, and respond to the comments on my online journal.
I was drowning in a sea of ____ concerns, and anxieties, and that was when I read an article with a simple insight.
The ____ advised me to draw two big circles, with myself in the center.
The smaller circle is my circle of influence, and I have direct control over the things inside it: ____ I eat and drink, how I behave, or what I do after school.
The ____ circle is called my circle of concern: things I worry about but have no direct control over.
For example, I have no direct control over how my professor ____ react to my report, but I do have control over the amount of research I do for it.
Believing that everything was ____ my circle of influence left me stressed out and constantly exhausted.
By wasting less energy on my circle of concern, I was able to ____ more energy into things that mattered.
I no longer worry about what my friends think, and I focus on my own ____
I don’t get anxious over what might be on the test, and instead I put in every effort ____ understand the concepts themselves.
Now, I only put my mental and physical energy into my circle of influence: eating healthy, staying in shape, ____ working hard.