Unit 1 My Life
Letters from Recent Graduates
Welcome to a new season ____ High School Magazine.
To start off the new school year on the right foot, we asked some of our recent ____ to give us tips on how to succeed in the coming year and beyond.
Compare Apples to Apples
In high school, everyone told me how talented an artist I was, so I dreamed of becoming an ____
In university, though, everyone seemed much ____ talented than me, and they all worked so hard that I felt small in comparison.
I thought about giving up my dream of ____ an artist.
Then one day, I happened to ____ a drawing I had won an award for from middle school on the kitchen wall.
I was embarrassed because ____ wasn’t very good.
People ____ you shouldn’t compare apples to oranges, and they’re right.
That’s ____ it doesn’t make sense to compare yourself to Internet personalities or even people in your real life.
Maybe they had an advantage, or even ____ disadvantage, that you didn’t.
If you are going ____ compare yourself to anyone, the only fair comparison is “yesterday-you.”
____ you know where you started and how much effort you’ve put in.
I couldn’t see the progress in my ability when I ____ compared myself to others.
Everyone develops differently. I’m able to see now the drawing ____ the kitchen was full of mistakes that I no longer make.
It is empowering ____ see how I have improved rather than to envy the success of others.
Your competition isn’t the person next door or the influencer on social media: it’s ____
Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up
Do you share your opinion in class discussions, or do you just stay silent and keep it ____ yourself?
Like many of you, I often found myself in the ____ group.
A little black hole inside of me swallowed my voice ____ I considered speaking up.
____ consequences of being ridiculed or being wrong were always on my mind.
Then, after a particularly ____ conversation in class, I asked myself, “What am I afraid of?”
I was scared that bad things would happen, but I never ____ about good things.
When I ____ others taking risks, I knew that I needed to do the same in order to participate.
Many people are scared to speak up, but a lot ____ them do it anyway because they think it’s worth it.
So I left my comfort zone and started to ____ up.
I grew intellectually and socially by expressing ____ more clearly.
I ____ closer to friends who liked how open I was with them.
Now I have more people with whom I ____ talk, share my ideas, and learn new things.
Remember, taking the risk of expressing yourself can be extremely ____ in unexpected ways.
Use Energy on What You Can Control
As I worked through ____ second year into my third in college, I had more troubles balancing school and personal life.
I would get excited, anxious, worried, and bored all at once and ____ separately.
I would get exhausted when I had to write a ____ for my courses, mediate a disaster between friends, and respond to the comments on my online journal.
I was drowning in a sea of ____ concerns, and anxieties, and that was when I read an article with a simple insight.
The article advised me to draw two big circles, with ____ in the center.
The smaller circle is my circle of influence, and I have direct control over the things inside it: what I eat and drink, how I behave, or ____ I do after school.
The bigger circle is called my ____ of concern: things I worry about but have no direct control over.
For example, I have no direct control over how my professor will react to my report, but I do have control over the amount of research I do for ____
Believing that everything was in my circle of ____ left me stressed out and constantly exhausted.
By wasting less energy on my circle of concern, I was able ____ invest more energy into things that mattered.
I no longer worry about what my friends think, and I focus ____ my own actions.
I don’t get anxious over what might ____ on the test, and instead I put in every effort to understand the concepts themselves.
Now, I only put my mental and physical energy into my circle of influence: ____ healthy, staying in shape, and working hard.